Yarr wrote:
Milamber wrote:
Don't change for anything. If what you're doing makes you happy, that's all that matters. Doesn't matter what X or Y thinks about you. And if girls you meet aren't happy with your hobbies or w/e, screw them. Wait until you find someone who is.
Mil gives some good quality advice here (not bad for a tard like mill omg). When princess and I split i dated a few people. Some liked, some I hated. One in particular I did like. Problem was I didnt feel like I could be myself. I couldnt talk about things I really liked, I felt like I had to hide my nerd area's more than I wanted too. I was pretty frustrated with the feeling that I couldnt "find the right girl".
Then from no where sunshine came along and I found someone I can act like a tard around again.
I totally feel that the idea of "looking" for someone is totally wrong. I spent like 7 months datting different people and constantly "trying" to find the right girl. Sunshine came along when I had just about "gave up" and wasnt even sure I wanted a relationship.
So far all the girls who I dated for long enough to feel they were my "girlfriend" came along during times I had "gave up" on dating haha.
Haha I was the same way. I had dated several people during my time at university but never met anyone I really felt good about. I was ready to give up and I sort of did, then all this happened and I can sing stupid songs and be a complete retard and know that Yarr is the exact same. lol My problem for all these years was that I didn't like myself enough and I wasn't comfortable enough with myself. When I met Yarr, I was beginning a complete overhaul of my body and myself in general, and I think that's why things have gone as well as they have, because I feel more confident about myself. It's nice to feel "comfortable" and be able to argue and voice my opinion without having to feel like the person will up and leave me like jerk-off guys in the past have done. I hated how my friends would be like "you'll find love when you least expect it"...I seriously wanted to punch them all in the mouths (Ron Burgandy-esque). It seemed so stupid and unrealistic to me, but then I was caught off guard and it happened. Yarr puts up with my weird sides (and boy, can I be weird), and I put up with his. So damn weird, but I'm happier than I've ever been. It's really gay sounding, but whatever, I'm a girl and as I always tell Yarr, I'M ALLOWED TO BE GAY LIKE THAT! lol