Some say appearance is just an illusion, and that our true beauty is inside, but sometime's it (that 'illusion') is all we have.
In society today, it's sad that people get judged on their looks far before their actions. But that's just the way a lot of people are. I myself can not deny it completely, to say you don't judge even the very very very slightest on looks is a lie. Sometimes your looks might also describe your personality (shaggy beard, clean shaven, etc).

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Matthew 7:2-5 (New International Version)

For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.

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lol i have always been tought to be Respectful to women of any colour or shape. opening the door to giveing ur seat up. Me and my friends use to go alot of Dances and i use to go around and look for the Girlt hat sits in the corner the whole dance and stares at the floor and i go ask her to dance. why? why not i have met ppl moths later and hearing about me b/c i was nice. little things go far way sometimes. but man my fiend did that once and they girl Turned him down lol omg i couldn't stop laughing lol he stopped doing that btw lol.

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matti it sounded like it wasnt the guys faults for not giving up their seats.... it was the stores fault for not accomodating enough chairs! if that was me i would have offered both ladies a seat... on my lap hoho.

no but really its a sad fact that you get judged based on your looks before youre given any real chance. thats society for ya

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Hell this kind of crap happens in games too. Tarus and Female(Guys/Girls IRL) characters get all the <3. T_T

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I have a mule named Seraphwings who only wears a subligar. The first day she went out into the public she got /tells asking for sexual favors and gil. I took the gil and logged out.

It's sad that the world is so biased on physical appearance it makes me wonder how poele are still able to breed. In any case I still give props to guys with a code of chivalry. We're a dying breed.

Hispanics = Overweight!? (Looking at himself..) Oh yea that's right nevermind not gonna touch that subject.

All the Girls that play this that i know always post a pic and they pretty Cute i wouldn't be susprised if one posted a Fake pic. I just wonder who lol.

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I agree with Jimbean. Overweight people are automatically assumed to be obnoxious, stupid, smelly, and more than anything, lazy. It's pretty pathetic, really.

In general, I talk to the overweight guys more often, b/c the fit, attractive guys seem to have as much personality as a plank of wood(not all, but it seems most I run into do)
I have a friend, and whenever we go out together, guys will completely ignore me to talk to her(and I mean they go to the point of pretending I don't exist.) She thinks I look better than her and doesn't realize thats not very true.(I'm as plain as a doorknob) I've been insulted randomly in public before many times, by both men and women.
Example
My son really really really really wants to go to McDonalds for lunch. So I give in, we go inside so he can play on the play ground. I order a salad since grease and I don't get along, go sit down, begin eating. Three women walk by, all thin, wearing pants showing their buttcracks. Tall blonde looks at me, then at the other two.
"I don't know about you girls, but I think it was a wasted effort for her to order a salad."
They laugh. Me. "I don't know about you girls, but I hope your friend has a bigger I.Q. than her pants size so she can start thinking up better insults next time." They get mad, walk off.
But it bothers me alot more then I'd let them see. Why should I get put down in public like that? Before they walked up I had not said or done anything to them, I hadn't even noticed them come in. When I go to the gym I get the same response. You'd think since its a gym people might be more supportive. But no. The other day this woman was sitting on the butt firming machine talking to her friend using the next machine over. I waited for about 20 minutes, but she wasn't using it or moving. I'd finished everything else in my routine, I just needed to get on that one machine. (The only one of its kind at my gym, figures) I walk up, ask if I could please use it for 5 minutes, then she could have it back. She glares at me, then says "5 minutes wouldn't even make a dent in your fat ass." and refuses to move. I leave, a bit upset.
Society sucks. -.-

ouch, ariaa those are some sad stories

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yea growing up i wasnt the cool kid and most of the time i was the fat kid. i used to get made fun of everyday for about 8 years straight. and it wasnt just a little bit, but basically every joke was almost directed at me. then one day i snapped. i stopped holding back and starting making fun of people back. and usually it was me cracking on them for 45 minutes until they had nothing left to say and sat there like a little bitch. thats when i found i was whitty and funny.

ive found the ppl who make the jokes at you, are just as insecure. does it make it right, no. but it does means if they are really bothering you, then its only fair to point out one of their shortcommings. if you cant find one, nothing beats making one up that they didnt think they had. dont let ppl push you around, that only makes you feel even less about yourself.

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ariaa if that was me and they said that then id say "if its a wasted effort, why dont you have it" then chucked it at the girl and if ppl think that over weight ppl are lazy how do i own my friends in volleyball (half of them cant get it over the net or in the lines)